"Matt Nichelson" (whoismatt)
12/25/2018 at 22:13 • Filed to: None
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"Matt Nichelson" (whoismatt)
12/25/2018 at 22:13 • Filed to: None | 2
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I hope yall had a better Christmas (for those who celebrate it) than I did. Really down on life in general right now. Here's to hoping next year is better.
smobgirl
> Matt Nichelson
12/25/2018 at 22:26 |
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Ugh, that was me a few weeks ago. I have some huge changes coming up s o I’m optimistic now, but I spent today at home being a crazy cat lady and unwrapping exciting presents I bought for myself, like a coffee grinder (and ok, I got myself LEGOs too).
I hope you find some happiness soon and please let us know how we can help.
Nibby
> Matt Nichelson
12/25/2018 at 22:31 |
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hey man what’s going on? we can talk! hopefully you can work your way through it
K-Roll-PorscheTamer
> Matt Nichelson
12/25/2018 at 22:34 |
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What’s up friendo?
punkgoose17
> Matt Nichelson
12/25/2018 at 22:36 |
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I get it. I am really depressed and anxious. I finished my bottle of burbon and a whole bottle of wine. I have never done that before. 6 years of marriage and no sexual relationship after she sexually used and ab used me while dating. I get that my wife experienced worse, but I put a date on my calendar to get a divorce, and am having a hard time not just leaving the house now.
Chariotoflove
> Matt Nichelson
12/25/2018 at 22:39 |
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The holiday season makes it tougher when life is down, huh? I’ve spent a couple of Christmases feeling that way. I hope things start looking up for you.
CB
> Matt Nichelson
12/25/2018 at 22:47 |
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The way to think about it, as I sit here alone thousands of kilometres from my nearest loved one, is that it’s just a day. I can relate to having a tough Christmas (not this year, but several), and while I don’t know your exact situation, it’s rough, but you’ll get through it. If you need anything, we’re always here.
wafflesnfalafel
> Matt Nichelson
12/25/2018 at 22:48 |
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CarsofFortLangley - Oppo Forever
> Matt Nichelson
12/25/2018 at 23:07 |
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We’re always here for you.
Kent.Ratke@gmail.com
Cash Rewards
> Matt Nichelson
12/25/2018 at 23:19 |
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my Christmas was different this year. Some of those reasons are good reasons, some are bad reasons that we’re trying to look on the bright side of, but are still fundamentally bad reasons. I could look at this year and say it fundamentally sucked. And the reasons why are never going away. But I’m lucky I got a support system that encourages me to stay positive, and know that next year those shit things are still going to be there, but we’ll be dealing with them. I hope you have to support you need. There's nothing wrong with finding it here; you know where we are.
Manwich - now Keto-Friendly
> Matt Nichelson
12/25/2018 at 23:23 |
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Well if it makes you feel any better, I haven’t had the best Christmas either...
https://oppositelock.kinja.com/oppocrash-the-aerio-is-likely-dead-1831292397
RiceRocketeer Extraordinaire
> punkgoose17
12/25/2018 at 23:26 |
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jfc dude, that is rough.
Future Heap Owner
> punkgoose17
12/26/2018 at 02:55 |
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That sounds like a really hard position. But I’m glad you’ve made a firm decision to get yourself out of it . I hope you follow through. Let us know if we can help.
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Future Heap Owner
> Matt Nichelson
12/26/2018 at 02:59 |
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I’m having a bit of a sad Christmas too. It’s hard feeling sad when everyone else around you is happy. I’m sorry you’re in the same boat. I hope we both have better Christmases next year!
LimitedTimeOnly @ opposite-lock.com
> Matt Nichelson
12/26/2018 at 06:56 |
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Hang in there, Matt. There are all sorts of good possibilities out there for you, even if they aren’t obvious at the moment .
Plus, you can visit Barber Motorsports Museum again soon which should make everything swell, right?
RallyDarkstrike - Fan of 2-cyl FIATs, Eastern Bloc & Kei cars
> CB
12/26/2018 at 07:10 |
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We’re all here to keep you company and drive you crazy! :P
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RallyDarkstrike - Fan of 2-cyl FIATs, Eastern Bloc & Kei cars
> smobgirl
12/26/2018 at 07:11 |
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I have one cat....is it sad that I am a crazy cat man to an extent whenever I am home? :P
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RallyDarkstrike - Fan of 2-cyl FIATs, Eastern Bloc & Kei cars
> Matt Nichelson
12/26/2018 at 07:13 |
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If there’s anything we can do for you mate, let us know! :)
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smobgirl
> RallyDarkstrike - Fan of 2-cyl FIATs, Eastern Bloc & Kei cars
12/26/2018 at 09:25 |
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That’s what they’re there for! Also the number of cats, like cars, is entirely dependent on circumstances outside of our control. For the record, I only adopted one cat...the rest just showed up.
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RallyDarkstrike - Fan of 2-cyl FIATs, Eastern Bloc & Kei cars
> smobgirl
12/26/2018 at 10:17 |
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We tamed ours as a feral kitten...she was 12 weeks then and is 3 now! :)
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punkgoose17
> Future Heap Owner
12/28/2018 at 21:57 |
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Life still sucks. I still plan on starting the divorce process on Jan. 12th which I realised is my 6 year anniversary. Hopefully she agrees to a mutual divorce because I cannot afford to move out and pay the mortgage for 2 years.
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Future Heap Owner
> punkgoose17
12/28/2018 at 22:12 |
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Maybe you could adopt some really annoying habits or hobbies in the next couple of weeks. Ever had an interest in bagpipes?